‘The Lord will not abandon His people for His great name’s sake, because the Lord has been pleased to make you a people for Himself.’ – 1 Samuel 12:22
Many of you may be familiar with the expression, “The consecrated life is a lonely life.” This saying is often used to caution people about the potential loss of friends and family when they dedicate themselves to seeking the Lord wholeheartedly and living a holy life.
While there may be some truth to this statement, it is vital to recognize the unfortunate misconception it creates about a life devoted to the Lord. The truth is, choosing the Lord does not condemn us to a painful and lonely existence. On the contrary, the Lord loves us more than we can ever comprehend. Jesus teaches us that the Lord would leave the ninety-nine to find the one lost sheep and rejoices upon its return.
Our Heavenly Father does not deliver us from evil only to subject us to misery. He made it clear in His Word that it is not good for humanity to be alone (Genesis 2:18). Therefore, even if you lose friends along the way, remember that the Lord is your Comforter. He has created a community for all Christians to come together. In churches and other platforms, you can find people who love the Lord and will encourage your faith.
Even in moments of loneliness, remember that you are never truly alone. This life presents numerous challenges, and we may encounter losses due to our precious faith. But hold steadfastly to the Lord. Through Jesus, we have been given the right to be called God’s children, part of one big family.
The Consecrated Life As An ‘Alone With God’ Life
Prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, I come before You and pray for comfort during loneliness. Strengthen me to look to You whenever I feel alone, knowing You will never leave nor forsake me. I ask all these things in the name of Jesus. Amen.
Challenge: Take a piece of paper and write down every scripture that comforts you and reminds you of the Lord’s presence and love. Read them aloud and pray whenever you experience feelings of loneliness.
